as a skinny person, you are catered to and you don’t even realize it. did you ask for that? no and i understand that. but you will never cry your eyes out in a dressing room because even the largest size doesn’t fit. you will never deal with rejection from a guy solely because of your weight. you are socially accepted.
is any kind of body shaming disgusting? yes. but please don’t act like you’d rather be fat.
My whole family assumes I’m straight and it’s like if I say anything like “wow that girl is so pretty” they’re like “you’re pretty too don’t compare yourself’ like no mom the only thing I’m comparing is the width between her legs and how well I could fit.
Remember that depressing text post I made this morning?
I did it.
I was the girl.
I was the girl people wanted to get to know.
I put myself out there, I made comments that made people laugh, people gravitated towards me, I made friends.
People made me feel welcome. And I’m just not used to that.
Why can’t I be super outgoing and likable when it comes to being in big groups? Like I can make people laugh and I’m super fucking nice to people I’ve never met but, like, you know how people just gravitate to a certain person? I just want to be that person. I want people to want to talk to me and get to know me. But I mean. Whatever.
I’ll respect your opinion as long as your opinion doesn’t disrespect my existence.
THIS PHRASE SHOULD BE WRITTEN EVERYWHERE AROUND THE WORLD.